Happiness is a vulnerable thing which may be unique from men to men or place to place. It depends on your mental condition, social condition and so on. Happiness in conjugal life mainly depends on better understanding between husband & wife. If there is a gap in faithfulness, love & understanding; happiness may not come or stay for a long. Here I will try to clarify some core points which will help you to make your wife happy forever. These are:
1. Be a good listener:
When your wife is upset; listen, listen and listen. Resist the urge to offer advice unless she asks for it, and don’t get defensive. Just listen, and show her that you are trying to understand. If you approach her like you understand what she is saying and that it will be alright; she will be willing to accept your gesture more easily. Don’t try to fix everything. Remember, women don’t want us to fix everything. They sometimes need to do that themselves and just need you to listen. So, try to be a good listener.
2. Speak about her interested topics:
This is true that you may not be interested in a topic like your wife. But don’t show annoyed with her. Try to show your interest also for sometime. As a result she will be pleased upon you. It will express your patience to your wife’s interest. This is an essential thing for conjugal happiness.
3. Give her an unexpected gift:
Every women love gifts. Surprise her with a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates. You can surprise her with a single item according to her needs or choice. Sometime you may have to identify technically about her choice. Never forget to take a gift for your wife in special days like; anniversary or birthday. On the other hand you can surprise her with a meal which you have cooked.
4. Be a Good Friend:
Try to be a good friend of your wife. If you take her as a good friend, she will feel more freedom to explore herself with you and your family. This will make your relationship healthier. Share your happiness and sadness with her.
5. Make a special Tour:
After Honeymoon; if your wife is a housewife try to make a special family tour. This will be more helpful for her refreshment. This is not necessary that you have to go to abroad for this; it may be arrange to a nearest beautiful place of your home. You don’t need to go Bali Island.
6. Take her Opinion:
In case of taking ay decision related to your personal and family life you should take opinion of your wife. This will make her more sacrificed to your family.
7. Support Your Wife:
Support of a husband for any kind of creative work is very essential. If you support your wife for her creativity; she will be able to reach her goal easily. This will improve your social image and mental peace.
8. Help her in household duties:
If you help your wife in her household duties she will be incredibly thankful to you. It may not be possible regularly for you; but it should be occasionally.
Intimacy (emotional and physical closeness) is important to women. Sexual intimacy is one of the most essential things in any marriage. So, this is important to make her happy in bed. Good sex plays a vital part when it comes to a satisfying relationship and if you are not skilled in bed that is going to be a major turn off. An ideal husband should remember that if he treats his wife well, she will be a jewel in his crown, a pleasure and a forever blessing.
Kiss your wife, “Don’t jump on her like a bull”. When it comes to intercourse many guys believe that the faster the better the women enjoys it! But the truth is quite the opposite, and going to a nice and slow motion brings on a climax faster, and much more extreme. This will also give you more control over your ejaculation and pleasure.
10. Stay Close:
Hold your wife close at any social occasions. This will not only make her feel loved but it will reassure her that you are proud to have her as your wife; and this in turn will make her feel happy. So, stay close at any type of social occasion. Try to willingly convoy your wife to family events.
11. Tell her she looks beautiful:
Women tend to be heard on themselves regarding their looks or beauty. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it’s beautiful.
12. Romantic Writing:
Write a romantic letter for your wife. Love letters written by hand never go out of fashion. Put your most romantic thoughts on paper, it will surely light up your wife’s eyes. She will be more romantic to you.
Husbands and wives live together but make sure you spend enough quality time together. This means laughing, talking, just having fun together. Make her see that wherever you are you feel like home when you are with her. Make emotional and physical closeness according her needs. Say, “I love you” to your wife at least once in a day; which helps to get more confidence to you.